I'm interested in being a Delta Sigma Theta, but I am a .?

Hello all, i am interested in being a Delta Sigma Theta, but i know i need to discrete. The problem that i have is, I am a . I know that greek soroities and fraternities don't welcome that with open arms. I love what the Deltas stand for, and who they are. I would like to be a part of their community. I have friends and family members who are involved, dedicated, and love being Deltas. I just need some honest opinions. Thanks.